Family Update Jan 2010

Well the new year has started and so far it's like every other year. Some good stuff and some bad. After our unusually cold spell we have now had a few weeks of nice warm weather.. very unusual for January!! Normally we get our -40 F spell in January and as of today (the 28th) the coldest we've had is about -18C (about 0F). The kids have been outside a lot which is wonderful!! There is a thick layer of ice everywhere and we are having to be VERY careful at how we walk or as we call it.. the winter waddle. After falling 2 times on my hip in the cow pen I'm VERY careful!! Thankfully no damage was done!

Well I guess I'll start smallest and go up! Griggs baby #5 is growing well and has made herself/himself known. I can feel kicks and twirls and jabs and the baby moves around and gets more mature. At almost 20 weeks he/she is almost 6 inches from head to bum and weighs almost 9 oz. He/she has everything including eye lids and hair and can suck it's thumb and swallow! At 20 weeks he/she could survive outside the womb with lots of care. I always like passing the 20 week mark just for that reason! And at 20 weeks we normally have the ultrasound and find out the sex of the baby. Papa is still very sure it's a boy.. I'm not convinced. :) Our ultrasound date is the 23 of February and I'm sure we'll keep you posted!! I'm regularly asked if this pregnancy is larger or smaller then the last 4. Honestly I have no idea. There will be 27 months between R and this new baby and between them I dropped 3 pant sizes. My body is in a much different shape now then it has been in several years... since I was pregnant with L! I do have a baby belly all of a sudden (to me anyway.. I belly bumped a kid the other day and was shocked.. I had no idea it stuck out that far!!) and not just the baby fat belly I've had for years! I call my baby fat belly my 4 layers of fat.. one for each child. It really should be 5 since I had a bit of one before the 4 layers of fat came to be! Anyway we are growing and healthy if tired and a bit lazy with all the COLD weather we've been having this year.

R is growing up! The other day we took apart her crib in the 1st stage of moving her and E into the bottom bunks of the bunk beds. (the boys will have the tops) She is now sleeping on her crib mattress on the floor.. it's a great learning stage between can't fall out of a crib and can fall out of a bed!! She loves it and slept great last night. The 2 nights she slept in the tent after Christmas is when she came to 'visit' in the middle of the night. After putting her back 2x a night she's now staying put!! She's also eating at the table with us without a tray on her highchair but sits a bit too low yet and I'm going to move her out of the highchair and into a seat at the end of the table. Table Shuffle!! LOL. These are also steps that need to be taken to give her some responsibility so when we come to potty training at age 2 she'll be able to and ready for more!

E is a giggly, wiggly teaser of a 3 year old which a touch of attitude and a flaring of temper. She loves to play with J and L and thinks she can do anything they can do. Nothing new there. Often she does it too! She asked me almost everyday when the baby would come for almost a month.. now she asks her self and answers herself. She is very excited about the new baby and is quite positive that it's a girl. As both boys think the baby is a boy they have some interesting arguments!! No one wins though as we don't know if it is a boy or girl yet. She is learning to take her plate, fork and cup from the table when she's done eating and put them where they belong. She totally dresses herself and can put her boots on as well. She can put her jacket on too sure she always gets it upside down.. with the hood over her butt!!

L recently discovered LEGO and can make cars following the instructions that came with the kits. He took to it like he'd been born to it and loves it. He's also really into coloring and can spend hours at it getting it just right. He is learning to shower himself with brother J as a informer.. he informs L of when there is still soap on him or informs me when L needs help. They shower together so L is really learning from J. I still have to put shampoo in their hair and makes sure it's totally washed out but other then that they shower completely without help. Very nice!! The two boys are quite the team and together they do a lot of things that only one couldn't. Like bring in a sled load of firewood when the stack was nearby, collect eggs and feed the hens, set up the table in the living area for picnic's, set the table, bring me ingredients for baking, emptying the dishwasher and putting away laundry. Some things they only need the others presents for courage.. like the hens and the ability to reaffirm where the clothes go but they work very well together and I'm proud of them. It's interesting to watch them as they often take turns being the one in charge. J is a natural leader but often they switch and even if L is asking J what to do next he still 'tells' J what to do next. They are quite the pair!!

Well J recently turned 6 and has taken on some new challenges.. LEGO and following directions is so easy when L does it but J struggles with it and has to redo every project at least 2 times before getting it to work right. This is good for his "I know everything" ego and is also teaching him patience with himself.. something he's never had a lot of. He's done a bit of the training of Chip and that dog listens to him better then me!! J got a tent for Christmas and a fishing rod for his birthday and is totally looking forward to going fishing with Grandpa 'when the snow goes away and Grandpa is off work!' He can now turn laundry right side out and fold some of it! Both the boys can fold washcloths and L can turn shirts outside right but J can fold pants and socks as well as turning anything right side out. Great help when we do our gobs and gobs of laundry every week. He also put his sheet on his bed for the 1st time the other day!! He and R have an understanding and he's the best with her. He can wash her hands and once in a pinch put her on the toilet! She was naked for a shower with E (who I was busy with) and wiggling like she was going to pee on the floor. I said J put R on the pot! FAST and he picked her up just in time to get her on before she peed on the floor. I'm not sure who was more impressed of the 3 of us. J for putting her on, R for peeing or me for the quick reaction of both!

Papa worked 1.5 days in the 10 over Christmas and New years which gave us both a needed rest. We got almost nothing done and watched a lot of movies and I read several books. I got him the new FOOD INC book and his nose was buried for hours at a time reading up on his favorite subject. It was quite cold the whole time he had off so outside work was not really possible. He did milk the entire time for me which blessed me immensely as I was wiped out by the holidays and the 1st 3 months of this pregnancy. We had a great lazy Christmas with only 2 gatherings and lots of Griggs time! We made our annual gingerbread house and this year a tree also and decorated them Christmas Eve and the boys smashed them New Years Eve. The girls (E and R and Brianna) tried but couldn't hit it hard enough.... not that any of them really tried. M & A joined us for New Years Eve and after stuffing ourselves on appys we sat with 5 of the 6 kids and watched Ratatouille putting kids to bed in stages until the movie was over and the last 2 asleep. Papa brought in the new year milking Maggie which I told him was fate.. and that he should take that as a sign to milk all year long and leave me out of it!! He didn't think so though and I'm still milking once a day. I really didn't think it would work but it was worth asking. We have a line on a milking machine and Papa is going to look at it this week. We also took a day to plan our spring/summer plans for pigs, cows, meat birds and fingered out when we can hopefully expect piglets, chicks, the baby and Bindy's and Maggie's calves. (in that order!! Busy Spring!!) We've been planning on getting fruit trees this spring and after looking at the current busy spring decided to wait a year before putting $800+ into them as we will not have the time or energy to learn properly how to care for them. So we've decided to plant that area to grass and see how it does for a year before planting the trees.

Chip is growing and his back is over my knee now. He's finally learned to bark and will bark at people but only if they get out of their cars and preferably if he's under the porch. Ha bark in the OPEN... he's too chicken. Fine with me!! I just want to know when people are here! He's made friends with most of the people who come every week and will even come out to be petted by a few. This suits us just fine! He still loves the cows but Bindy does not love him.. though she does tolerate him. He can go into the cow pen again now. For a while there she'd chase him out over and over and over but he never gave up. He does love his Maggie. Speaking of Maggie the 2 of them gave us a scare the other day!! Papa looked out the window and saw Maggie licking a small black thing on the ground. He instantly thought CALF and panicked! A second later he realized it was only Chip who had turned to lick Maggie back. But his heart stopped for a second and we both had a good laugh over it! At the time it was -35C (-30F) and no time to be messing with calves!!

Maggie and Bindy are doing well together and seem to have bonded. Bindy is the "head" cow though and tries to stop Maggie from going in to be milked. I've had to chase her out twice because she stands SO close to the door Maggie needs to go through that Maggie will not pass her to go in even though she wants to be milked and loves her sweet mix. Bindy also loves the sweet mix and if your not careful she sticks her head through a hole and eats with Maggie. Maggie being the 'teenager' lets her!! But if we put the feed carefully on the other side of the box Bindy can't reach and scratches her way through the milking instead!! Papa fixed this the day after I wrote about it!! :) Note: We went and bought the milking machine today and what a sweet deal for $400!! Cheap, cheap cheap!! Yes!! That is one great thing about our cows is that they totally pay for themselves, their feed, hay, fencing and now extras too. Maggie has even taken us out for lunch or supper several times!! We are looking forward to the day when the cows will pay for some of our groceries too!! Oh and right now Maggie is paying for Chips dog food too!!

We have a new critter on the farm these days. A 550 lb critter who is thankfully only visiting. We borrowed a Berkshire boar to breed our 3 Berkshire gilts. He is HUGE but Papa informs me he is a very friendly pig. I can't get over his size enough to find out. I'm going to go out and take some pictures yet.

Update. We got the bunk beds up and sorted out and it's working great. It also gives them lots of room to play and if needed we can put a crib up in there as well. R has the most enclosed bunk on the bottom and hasn't visited us once since we set them up. One day at naps she tried to get out and went the wrong way and got lost on the end of her bed!! She was not fully awake and sat there and cried til I rescued her.

A L funny!! I was laying reading on the bed last night and L came over and put his hand on my belly and informed me I was FAT!! Papa and I laughed and explained to him that my 'fat' was his new sister or brother and that I would get much 'fatter' yet!!